Book of Memories for Gerard A "Gerry" Zitoli

Memorial Candle lit by Maurice Hebert

Tue, 07 Aug 2018 12:21:25 EDT

Maurice Hebert

Condolence From Caitlen Frank

Mon, 14 Aug 2017 15:07:12 EDT

What a terrible loss. He will be sorely missed. My thoughts to the family as they endure.

Condolence From Mark Foster

Sun, 13 Aug 2017 21:32:05 EDT

My condolences and deepest sympathy to the family. I had the pleasure of working with Gerry on many different projects over the years at Tufts Health Plan. Gerry was always willing to help and share his knowledge with me. I will miss our occasional chats and morning greetings!

Condolence From Mike Gustin

Fri, 11 Aug 2017 08:32:17 EDT

My deepest sympathies and prayers for the Zitoli family on the sudden loss of our beloved Gerry. I had the honor of working with him for 15 years at Tufts Health Plan. He was a great listener, teacher, and mentor. When you brought an issue to Gerry, you always walked away with a better understanding, a solid, well explained position, and an answer. I loved having Gerry on my side. We all will miss his humor, kindness, and his offer to buy you a cup of coffee and talk it over. I can still see him in the cafe, leaning across the table, shaking his head, waving his arms, passionately stating his well reasoned position. God bless you Gerry. You will leave a huge void in the Tufts Health Plan family. You will be fondly remembered by many. May you Rest In Peace.

Condolence From Danya Zimmer

Thu, 10 Aug 2017 20:00:55 EDT

Gerry and I started at Tufts Health Plan at the same time, so I had the honor and privilege of working with him for 27 years. I am so very saddened by his passing and send my heartfelt condolences to Gerry’s family and friends.

Condolence From Melinda Reno

Thu, 10 Aug 2017 19:12:02 EDT

My condolence to the Zitoli family. I was on the other side of the negotiation table with Gerry and I found him to be very professional, articulate and thorough as to what he wanted and why. He took the time to make sure I understood his position and provide a little coaching along the way. Having only known him on a professional basis I enjoyed learning more about him in his obituary. I was not surprised to find he was a wonderful family man who will be missed by many.

Condolence From Kelly Farewell

Thu, 10 Aug 2017 13:53:59 EDT

Dear Zitoli Family, My deepest sympathies to you on the loss of Gerry. It was a pleasure working with him at Tufts Health Plan for many years. While it was admittedly intimidating to be called to his office for an issue, it was fascinating to watch him work, explain his reasoning, and help solve issues. He inspired me to always bring my "A" game. I echo the sentiments of our many colleagues when I say he will be sorely missed for his warmth, his friendly smile, and his dedication to his work. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Sincerely, Kelly Farewell

Condolence From Lisa Stamm

Thu, 10 Aug 2017 13:19:56 EDT

Dear Zitoli family- I was so sadden by the shocking news of Gerry’s passing. I am personally honored to have known him and had the pleasure of working with him over the past 16 years. Gerry was an extremely talented attorney who always took time to explain his rationale by providing an analogy of why he came to a decision. Some of them were creative and funny which made learning from him such a joy. I will miss his kind and warm smile and his early morning hellos. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Condolence From Jennifer Curcio

Thu, 10 Aug 2017 12:02:58 EDT

Dear Zitoli Family: I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I have had the pleasure of working with Gerry for over 20 years at THP. At one challenging client meeting in particular, I remember thinking how happy I was that I was sitting next to him rather than across from him at the table - he was someone you definitely wanted on your side. He was such a presence at Tufts Health Plan and all of us are the better for knowing him. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers My deepest sympathy.

Condolence From Anne Newton

Thu, 10 Aug 2017 09:19:27 EDT

Dear Zitoli Family, I was so very very saddened to hear the news of Gerry's passing. My condolences to you. I had the great fortune and immense pleasure to work with Gerry since his first day at Tufts Health Plan. I remember his first office where he had a door but no doorknob. We always laughed about that. Also, his office was across from the water cooler and he was always willing to flip the water jugs for us. Even though in recent years we did not work together that often I always knew I could call Gerry for discussion and guidance when an issue arose. I echo all the sentiments of my coworkers. Gerry was one of the truly nice guys. I will miss his smile. I will miss him. May your memories and those shared with you as well as your family and friends provide comfort and support .

Condolence From Beth Noterman

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 19:09:33 EDT

Dear Zitoli family, None of this is probably news to you, but hopefully the slightest comfort. I knew that I'd love working with Gerry from the first day that I met him. He was very decisive, but also a very good listener and would consider any facts contributed, from anyone willing to speak up, before stating his position. He didn't pretend to have all of the answers, but it was obvious that he knew most everything anyway. He truly cared about his work and was always invested in finding the best outcome. He was direct, genuine, intelligent, articulate and funny. He was a leader. I will especially miss meeting him at our parking spots in the THP garage, which were across the aisle from each other. We "claimed" the spots years ago as we arrived in the very early morning. After reading the obituary, I know that it won't surprise the family to learn that he carefully backed into his spot every day and that it was directly next to the exit - I just did not realize that this was zombie apocalypse prep until this week. Gerry's time was far too short and he will be greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Condolence From Kate Mullin

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 18:22:48 EDT

My sympathy and prayers go out to Gerry's immediate loved ones and family. We are feeling just some of your pain and sadness at Tufts Health Plan as this unexpected loss has been heartbreaking to those of us who worked with him so closely. Personally, I was lucky enough to get the opportunity to work with Gerry on countless initiatives and almost every work day over the last 15 years. I have the greatest respect for him. Not only did I learn so much from him, but will forever be grateful for his loyalty and support solving difficult issues. He was a wise problem solver, kept you on your toes in meetings, but underneath his work bravado, he truly cared about all those with whom he worked. Gerry was truly one of a kind. We will miss him immensely.

Condolence From Sarah Rush

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 18:09:06 EDT

There is no equal to Gerry. He inspired all of us to do our best work, to think "What Would Gerry Do", and he is why I finally decided to go to law school. I learned so much from him, and will remember his earnestness, exuberance and warmth always.

Condolence From Wil Joseph

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 16:52:14 EDT

Dear Gerry Zitoli Family, Please accept my deepest condolences on the saddened loss of your love one Gerry. He was an honor to have known such a great person and I will truly miss him. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with the family. -Wil Joseph

Condolence From Amanda Palmer

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 16:32:27 EDT

My thoughts and prayers are with the Zitoli family at this time of immense sadness and profound loss. Gerry was truly one of a kind - direct, to the point, always challenging those he worked with to work harder, think faster, and to consider other angles, but never without a smile and a greeting as well! The fabric of Tufts Health Plan is forever changed by his loss.

Condolence From Tiana Prezas

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 15:43:11 EDT

Dear Zitoli Family: Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. Gerry was very spirited and talented attorney, and always had time to listen whether work or otherwise. I was stunned to hear the sad news, may peace be with you at this time.

Condolence From Shelagh Kiley Smith

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 15:24:57 EDT

This beautifully written obituary says it all - Gerry was one of the "best" men and will be deeply missed by so many whose lives he touched with his generosity. Sending my love to Nancy, Mike and Sarah

Condolence From Diana White

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 13:52:52 EDT

Dear Zitoli Family - as a member of the Tufts HP community - I too was shocked and saddened by the news. You have been on my mind for the past few days. I hope you find comfort knowing that his spirit will walk along side all of you in the upcoming days, months and years. May peace come to you soon.

Condolence From Donna Taverna

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 13:44:29 EDT

I am so sorry for your loss. He was a very friendly person and very much admired. God Bless, Donna Taverna

Condolence From Stephen Camper

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 13:31:32 EDT

Gerry was a man whose influence went far beyond his role as an attorney. He will be missed.

Condolence From Ron Haley

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 13:16:48 EDT

Condolences from the Haley family and SMPO. Best wishes and prayers for Gerry and his family.

Condolence From Rebecca Rosen

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 13:12:13 EDT

Gerry was such a wonderful person. I still have the schrader valve adaptor he gave me some time ago, to keep for future bike repair needs, after helping me to resolve a bicycle issue... he was patient and kind and seemed to really enjoy all of life. My sincere condolences to his family.

Condolence From Ed Geraghty

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 12:38:35 EDT

My sincere condolences and prayers for the Zitoli family. I had the honor of knowing Gerry for 24 years, and privilege of receiving his legal guidance during the last 7 years at Tufts Health Plan. His dedication to his craft and the company was unmatched, and I will fondly remember his wry sense of humor mixed in with his serious counsel over many contracts and projects.

Condolence From Gail Quigley

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 12:33:18 EDT

My deepest condolences to the Zitoli family. Gerry was a great guy and will be missed dearly here at Tufts Health Plan.

Condolence From Katrina Orlebar Clark

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 12:01:08 EDT

Such a huge loss for Tufts Health Plan. Gerry was such a gentleman - had a smile for everyone, and wisdom for those who wanted it. He will be missed. Rest in eternal peace.

Condolence From Lisa Dustin

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 11:48:10 EDT

I am so very sorry for your family's loss. I've worked with Gerry for over 25 years and have learned so much from him. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this very difficult time

Condolence From Carolyn Jacoby Gabbay

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 11:41:56 EDT

I am shocked and saddened to learn of Gerry's passing. Gerry was such a GREAT guy -- always witty and charming and considerate. I sat across the negotiating table from Gerry for 20+ years. There was never a time when the discussion was anything other than totally professional, polite and down-right friendly. There was never a gap we could not bridge or an issue we could not resolve, no matter how complex the subject was or how different our clients' perspectives were. Gerry's intelligent, informed and collegial lawyering will be greatly missed. Gerry personified the very best of the profession -- and, on a personal level, he was one of the truly "good guys" one can have the good fortune to get to know. My condolence to his family and his Tufts HP colleagues.

Condolence From Debbie and Gordon Clark

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 11:26:19 EDT

It's never easy to lose family. Gordon and I are so sorry to hear about the unexpected loss of your brother. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Condolence From Maurice Hebert

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 10:52:53 EDT

My deepest sympathies and prayers to the Zitoli family. I was so saddened to get this news. I had the pleasure of getting to know Gerry and working alongside him on a few projects at Tufts since joining the company last year. He was intelligent, always professional and personable too. He will be missed and we will never forget him. God bless.

Condolence From Elizabeth Herlihy

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 10:33:47 EDT

Nancy , Michael and Sarah - we were so shocked and saddened to hear the news of Gerry's passing. Immediately I thought of the wonderful summer baseball team and what contributions he added to my children's life as a coach. May God hold him in his arms. Elizabeth, Mark, Michael, Kevin and Susan Herlihy

Condolence From Juan Lopera

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 10:21:38 EDT

We’re all very shaken by the news – Gerry has left a remarkable legacy at Tufts and will be missed beyond words. Thank you for having made the work place that much richer with your knowledge, wisdom and friendship. Condolences to the family. Juan Lopera

Condolence From Mary Thurber

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 10:12:48 EDT

My deepest condolences to the Zitoli Family during this sad and difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Gerry on every corporate project I managed in my 9 years at THP. An early riser/early to work person like myself, he always accommodated me with spontaneous 7:30 a.m. meetings for legal counsel. He was direct, to the point, thoughtful and knowledgeable with guidance. I will miss his cheerful, warm greetings and sense of humor. He will be greatly missed here at THP.

Condolence From Christine Gray

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 09:53:46 EDT

My thoughts and prayers are with Gerry's family. I am saddened to hear of his passing. I had the pleasure of working with Gerry for the past 20 years. He always greeted me with a big hello and smile. I respected his honesty, directness, and integrity. He will be missed.

Condolence From Scott Mays

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 09:44:39 EDT

My thoughts and prayers are with the Zitoli family during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Gerry in the legal department over the last several years. Gerry was without a doubt, one of the finest lawyers I have ever had the privilege of knowing. I learned so much from him in a short period of time. Gerry was a true mentor to so many colleagues, and a dear friend to even more. Gerry was that rare person who made work truly fun with his sharp wit and seemingly endless knowledge. He was always one step ahead, always considering another angle. The time I spent with Gerry preparing to try a case together is one of my fondest memories. I will miss our many conversations about the law, the Bruins, and the many WWII movies that we both enjoyed.

Condolence From Nakia Warren

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 09:20:17 EDT

My prayer for the Zitoli family is increased love, comfort, peace and support during this time. My sincerest condolences to you all. I have worked with Gerry for over 15 years and he played an instrumental role in assisting and supporting me over the years. I will miss Gerry's direct and wise counsel, but most of all his huge smile and boisterous hello whenever we crossed paths. Rest in Paradise Gerry....

Condolence From Jean Valentino

Wed, 09 Aug 2017 08:09:09 EDT

My thoughts and prayers are with the Zitoli family. I have worked with Gerry for 24 years and he always had a smile on his face when I saw him in the morning. He will be missed.

Condolence From Sheila Bennett

Tue, 08 Aug 2017 21:44:30 EDT

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Zitoli family during this difficult time. I had the pleasure of working with Gerry and am saddened to hear of his loss. Gerry was an amazing well respected man. I admired his direct personality, there was no "fluff" with Gerry. He kept it real! Loved his smile and sense of humor. Glad to have had the opportunity to work with him, and share some great laughs together. He was a pleasure to work with, he will be greatly missed.

Condolence From Connery Byrne

Tue, 08 Aug 2017 21:36:37 EDT

Dear Zitoli family: Gerry was the most intelligent soul I have ever had the pleasure of knowing and since the day I met him I have held him in the highest regard. His presence was ineffable and the loss of him is great. I wish you peace and comfort in knowing that Gerry was loved by so many. -Connery Byrne

Condolence From Larry Todesca

Tue, 08 Aug 2017 20:47:37 EDT

Mike & family, So sorry to hear about Gerry's passing. Please know that you are all in our thoughts. Love, Larry & Jean Todesca

Memorial Candle lit by Sheila Bennett

Tue, 08 Aug 2017 16:26:02 EDT

Sheila Bennett

Condolence From Pam Giannatsis

Tue, 08 Aug 2017 12:44:51 EDT

Gerry always had a smile for me no matter what, and an answer to my question always. I will miss the former more than anything. Our loss in his sudden passing is a bitter reminder that today is everything. He leaves a large hole in the fabric of our Tufts Health Plan family. Peace to you, his family. May his memory be eternal.

Condolence From Lisa Potter

Tue, 08 Aug 2017 11:12:50 EDT

To Gerry's Beloved family Heartbroken to hear of this great man's sudden passing. To me, Gerry was as real as it gets. His dedication to his job was unmatched. When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. Gerry is a treasure and the memories I have are many ...I worked with him for 20+ years. Rest well my friend. I will miss you...Lisa Potter

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Tue, 08 Aug 2017 06:27:37 EDT

Condolence From Dotti Cappola

Mon, 07 Aug 2017 12:15:12 EDT

Our deepest sympathy at this hearbreaking loss. Our love and prayers are yours, Love, Dotti, Aunty Val, Michael